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Unlocking Pleasure: Navigating the Intersection of Sex and Intimacy in 2023.

In the ever-evolving landscape of human relationships, our perception of sex and intimacy has undergone a transformative journey. The pendulum has swung from the era of fear and secrecy, directly into the spotlight of performance, and somehow missed the crucial intermediary element: pleasure. In 2023, it's time to rediscover the importance of pleasure in our sexual and intimate experiences.

Finding Pleasure Amidst Fear and Performance

The Fear Factor

For decades, societies were gripped by fear when it came to sex and intimacy. Stigmas and taboos surrounding these topics cast a shadow that prevented open discussions. Such fear often led to a lack of education, misinformation, and the proliferation of shame around these natural aspects of human life.

The Era of Performance

With the advent of the internet and the prevalence of social media, society shifted towards an era of performance. People felt the pressure to conform to certain standards and expectations, often driven by unrealistic portrayals in media and the pursuit of perfection. The emphasis on performance resulted in a disconnect between individuals, as the authentic experience of pleasure took a backseat.

A Pleasurable Shift: Exploring Sex and Intimacy in 2023

An Invitation to Pleasure

C'mere invites you to a discussion that is all about pleasure. It's time to explore what makes sex and intimacy pleasurable, and how we can embrace and support each other on this journey. This event aims to be a bottom-up approach, prioritizing the voices and experiences of the audience over traditional lectures.

Meet the Facilitators

- Shaun Ussher: A fantastic guide and host for this exploration.

- Shauna Scott (Sex Siopa): As the owner and operator of Sex Siopa, Shauna brings a wealth of knowledge about pleasure and sexual wellness.

- Fidelia Idogho: A psychotherapist and social worker who can provide valuable insights into the emotional and psychological aspects of pleasure.

For Adults Only: An 18+ Event

Please note that this event is exclusively for adults aged 18 and above. ID verification may be requested to ensure compliance with age restrictions.

Capturing the Experience

A quick note about privacy: By attending this event, you agree to be photographed by a designated photographer from C'mere. If you prefer not to be included in photos, please let us know. Your comfort and consent are of utmost importance to us.


In 2023, it's high time we acknowledge and prioritize the often-neglected element of pleasure in our sexual and intimate encounters. The journey from fear to performance was necessary to shed light on these topics, but it's in embracing and savouring pleasure that we truly connect with ourselves and our partners. This event is a testament to the changing landscape of sex and intimacy, where we explore what brings us joy and satisfaction.

Join Shaun Ussher, Shauna Scott, and Fidelia Idogho for a candid and liberating discussion on pleasure in 2023.


1. What should I expect from the event?

- Expect an open and honest discussion about pleasure in sex and intimacy, guided by experts in the field.

2. Is this event suitable for everyone?

- This event is for adults aged 18 and above.

3. Do I have to participate actively, or can I simply listen and learn?

- You are welcome to participate as much or as little as you're comfortable with. It's a safe space for everyone.

4. How can I prepare for the event?

- Come with an open mind and a willingness to explore and discuss the topic of pleasure.

5. Can I bring a friend or partner to the event?

- Absolutely, feel free to share this liberating experience with someone you trust and feel comfortable with.



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